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This self defense program changed my life:

http://www.impactchicago.org/

I learned how to be assertive. Not bitchy, but firm about what I want.

And I can kick the crap out of 'em if I need to.

I used to be a creep magnet. No more.

Hmm... I don't get a lot of attention by men, which I am usually grateful for. However, IF they do show interest, they are 40+, which is...creepy.
I have only had one incident when I was 18 on a bus stop in France one summer and I was alone (but there were people waiting for the bus also) and a man touched my (bare) calf and wanted to go up my leg with his hand. I was so shocked, I only managed to jump up and stand about 5ft away
Otherwise, it's only looks. I do think I come across similarly as you do, except I'm not petite but short. And I look innocent and I think people can tell I'm not very self-confident so that must attrack the wrong people.
Thankfully, my city is pretty safe so I don't have to worry too much if I'm alone at night but I don't think I'd stand a chance if something did happen.
Do you feel safer with your pepper spray? I think BGs suggestion is a good one! That definitely will give you confidence. And then remember to walk confidently and look like you have a destination (not too much glancing around etc.) maybe that makes a difference.

Look for a full impact self defense class. It's much more than just self defense. We spent two entire weekends together, role playing scenarios like riding the bus and having someone sit too close, or follow you, or flirt in a bar, etc.

Over half of the class was assertiveness training.

Try this: http://www.impactselfdefense.org/