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Question:
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Choices:
In the hours/days following a session with them.
Several days after a session with them/the midpoint between last session and next session.
Immediately before a session.

 

This message has been edited. Last edited by: LadyGrey,

It can really vary depending on what went on in the session and how long I have to go in between. Typically, the longest break that I have lately from T is three days and that is usually over the weekend. I tend to miss her the most on Saturday afternoons for some reason.

I agree that it varies, but the day after is almost universally bad.

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Originally posted by yakusoku:
I agree that it varies, but the day after is almost universally bad.

Yes, I agree with that. Fortunately for me that is also usually the day before as I most often see her every other day.

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Fortunately for me that is also usually the day before as I most often see her every other day.

I'm so jealous! I wish I could see my T every Monday and every Friday. Why does he have to work so far a way for the rest of the week?

Whenever I'm conscious.

LG,

I get a serious pain in my chest several hours after T. But then struggle with missing him all week. So I just wanted to vote for all three but couldn't. It's the worst about an hour or so after I see him.

Although this week, I think I've finaly given up fighting my attachment for him and I feel a strange peace and strength in the relationship that I haven't felt before. It's a really nice feeling and it's carried me through a whole week. I haven't been able to go a whole week without seeing him since October.

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Whenever I'm conscious.

You got that right AG.

I miss her most when I am stressed. I am really good at staying focused when I'm at work, but that's only 5 days a week, 8-5pm. What do I do the rest of my waking hours? Count down until my next session with her.

I actually found that when my T was on vacation, as long as I did not allow myself to contact him at all, the missing him went away. But that was before the attachment got quite so strong, a good two months ago at this point. I wonder if I could actually survive him being on vacation without hearing from him at this point.

I wish I was one of those kids who gets attached to his mom at the mall/amusement park/grocery store with a cord. I will do anything to be tied to T1 all day every day!!! (and to think, I used to think those cords were abusive to kids!)

Can't I check all three?

I'm with AG..

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Whenever I'm conscious.

i'm with AG!! though the next day is usually very hard then i'm on countdown!

wow. never I never miss T. I miss talking and getting stuff off my chest but I never miss T.

Same as Morgs - horribly the next day, then on countdown! ~D.

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Originally posted by Morgs:
though the next day is usually very hard then i'm on countdown!

Same here. Although the countdown starts the minute I walk out of the door after an appointment. Also, sometimes during a session where I can't open up and hence don't feel a connection, I miss her more than ever. On those occasions the countdown starts during the session... I am so pathetic.