I happened to find this site while researching info on transference. What a find!! After reading many posts and advice, I finally got up the courage to talk with my P about my feelings and it was a fabulously productive session. He handled it professionally and so sensitively. As predicted he knew I was having these feelings and was waiting for me to bring up the topic. I am so glad I did. I feel like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders and we can go on doing the work that I need to do. Thanks to all of you who post on this site. I will continue to use it for advice. I'll have some input for some of you too.

Hi emogirl and welcome to the forum! I'm so glad that you've been helped by what you've read here. You should be really proud of yourself for going to your T and being open about your feelings, it's a very scary thing to do. And it's great your T reacted so well. I have really found that being as open about my feelings with my T as I'm capable of has really helped me to heal. And you'll find a lot of support and wisdom here for what you're going through. Looking forward to getting to know you.

AG