Welcome Sheychen. Thanks for sharing!

Hi Sheychen, Welcome!

Sorry about your T backing away lately. How long have you been with her?

UV- I am amazed you have the courage to ask of his feelings for former Ts. But then very appropriate to get to the resolution you two needed so that you could begin the work on your own feelings. Very good, sounds like you have a good relationship with your T.

Frog- I'm sorry you felt bad for posting some things and I understand your need for deleting. I'm sure no one will hold anything against you here so hopefully you don't feel regret so much anymore now.

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Originally posted by ultraviolet:

What I really want to know is if he ever cheated on his wife...

That’s interesting, ultraviolet- I’ve asked my T a few times if he has ever cheated on his wife. Actually, I’ve even begged him to tell me. I really really really want to know. I know he’s never going to tell me. And even if he did tell me I don’t think it would end up being beneficial whatsoever. If he said no, I would think he was lying. And if he said yes I would hate him forever. Anyway, there is a very long story behind all of this… I just thought it was interesting that someone else wanted to know the same thing.

monte- wow! Twin-brother? That would have freaked me out as well. If i found out my T had a twin i propably would have stalked the poor man and pretended it was my T.. gosh- so meny stupid things that would have made me do.
(i know he doesnt have one btw) I am a twin myself so i guess if my t had one as well- the whole relation would have turned into a major complex "twin-transeference/counter-transeference" lol.

just curious monte- why did your T told you that? My T never tells me personal stuff like that.. *a bit jelaous of monte*