Feathery hugs for Sophie, from BB too... (((((((Sophie)))))))))))))

BB

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STRMS... thanks for your kind words....sounds like you are doing some hard processing too with one of your littles.(I call them C.P's or child parts) I too wish that it wasn't so hard...... are you a mother STRMS? Do you feel motherly towards your C.P's?.....of course dont answer anything that you dont feel comfortable about...i know all to well about diclosing stuff on here and system blow outs Frowner
I am so pleased that you have a T that hugs!!!! These children need to be held and soothed . That's what makes mine heal.someone who is finally there for them and will sit with them in there pain,shame and grief.Its all to do with validation and feeling safe ,loved and cared about......sometimes i think my children cry more from the relief of finally getting that , than actually releasing their secrets.
hugs ((STRMS))

DF,

Yes, I am a mother. I have three children. In fact, lately it seems many of my little parts are paying very close attention to my mothering. They seem to really perk up and take notice of the loving attention and snuggling that I give my children. It is bittersweet though. Reminds them that they didn't have that themselves, but then at the same time they can feel it now. Same with T. She does hold them and comfort them. Nobody ever did that in the past so while it is healing now and feels good it does trigger grieving for what they didn't have. I have adult parts that mother the little parts. I am more intellectual myself, but we do have some inner mothers that help to comfort the little ones.

I can so relate to Sophie and her struggle to talk. Little Kate (the one doing most processing lately) had a tremendously hard time talking on Wednesday. I'm sorry that Sophie is so stuck and so scared. Little Kate knows all about that. Little Kate would like Sophie to know that she is safe now and it is safe to tell. ((((Sophie))))

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Thanks STRMS for your reply and thank you little kate...hugs from sophie.((()))

I don't have anything to add just now, but I want you to know how precious I think this conversation is- the one between Draggers and STRMS.
It just reflects love- healing love.

Mayo

I was very touched too. Please send safe hugs for Kate and Sophie from BB?

BB

Hey BB- how are you?

Not posting much - lots happening-
I will be back- just enjoying reading about the love and support everyne has for one another on this site.
Where else can you find this???

Hey, Mayo...Thanks for asking- I'm hanging in there right now! Good that you are busy...wish I could get motivated, ugh...yeah, it's a really good place. How are you doing?

BB