quote:I'm not sure if this is applicable to everyone, but i am thinking it more likely is...I think after you work through your trauma, you won't be as prone to this. I didn't realize that I did this until after I had a relationship with someone with NPD
xoxo, this is interesting. I have happened to be in the company of people who are as complex/have major NPD or so complexities. Two romance interests, one landlady so far, in 3 years. Interestingly these were the kinds of people who were very confident and charming but lacked emotion attunement. Similar to my father.
I learnt about myself here. I am easily taken in by people who are confident and secure in themselves because it is what I lack. My wish to be confident and consistent and enthusiastic for life.
Slowly starting to find my own little pathway in amongst the hedges now. Starting to breath.