I hear you. It has to be hard to be a T. I have been on the receiving end of something similar and have had to draw boundaries. I can see both sides.
I also think (know) that some people just don't care for email as a mode of communication, just as others are less comfortable with phone contact, texting, etc.
I think that part of the "good fit" with a T is to match communication styles.. now that we have all these options. It may seem obvious, but is also seems that there is a lot of trial-and-error involved.
Keep in mind too, that not all of us do traditional in-office therapy. Phone and written correspondence is what we work with, some do Skype, etc. I personally quite enjoy technology (although social networking more than emails, they overwhelm me)
