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SG, you have always been so supportive. Thank you. I too am glad that your most recent T knew how to do it right. I'm sure you must miss her. How are you doing these days?

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Your T needs to define, establish, and keep the boundaries with respect to texting.

My T would say that she has defined the rules (re-defined, IMO) by stating that although she will try to answer me during the week, (1) she will only get back to me when/if she can because her life is unpredictable, and (2) she expects me to exercise trust in her when she doesn't answer, that its nothing personal, because I need to practice hanging on to the connection between us.

I, on the other hand, always want her to be the same, and very predictable. I guess she thinks that is unrealistic or that it will retard my progress if I never have to take a leap of faith to trust her when she doesn't answer.

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