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Wynne

So for me, it is that I have told her things that I don't even want to admit to myself. Things that I have a lot of shame and guilt for. And I have trusted her to hear these things and not judge me for them, but to help me understand them and stop feeling the shame and the guilt. The thought that she would leave me (like some people in my life have before), is very real. Then where would I be? She would have validated the insecure feelings that I have about myself and then I probably would not take the risk to trust anyone again. It really is hard to explain. I can't even explain the whole transference thing, except that it is a love unlike any other. I'm still trying to figure it out!

PL
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