Dear Summer, Thanks for your reply---especially that you said you must accept and grieve. I don't talk too much about my attachment to my former T, because I feel there is nothing to be done but get over it. Besides, 10 days after termination, my son died, so I have been caught up in dealing with that (doing pretty well) The better I feel, though, the more I miss my former T. My relationship with the new T is good, but I fear I will just transfer to her...what a bind! Luna