AG - as always your posts are chock full of good stuff that helps all of us .... your T sounds amazing .... but so do you ... you had the courage to go back and ask and keep asking .... that's the hard part for me .... I never realized how deep my attachment issues were until I read all this stuff and it is very informative ... so thank you to all of you!

I just wanted to comment on Sheychen's C ... it does in fact sound like she's limited and it sounds like you're trying to get blood from a stone .... It's so hard to start over .... I see myself acknowledge that all the time .... I'm having some difficulty now starting over in some arenas but I'm acknowledging that I'm having difficulty and allowing that room ... but also acknowledging that it would benefit me in the long run if I can learn how to form new relationships .... and to let go of old ones when they come to a natural or unnatural end .... there's so much emotional pain out there ... not just within us but within the people we are interacting with all the time and our emotional pain is clashing with their emotional pain ....

It's just quite possible that your C is experiencing her own emotional pain that she hasn't dealt with and this is the reason she can't connect with your emotional pain .... It may not be that she doesn't want to help you ... she just can't help you .... and it would be to your benefit to find someone who can help it ....