I just have to say that even though my session yesterday with my T was brutal, I am finding comfort in his boundaries ... in the fact that I don't have to look for them ... I know where they are ... and they are very tight .... It would cause me so much anxiety to have a T who didn't seem to have boundaries and let me keep needing him and reaching out in different ways .... looking for that line ..... that to me, would be brutal .....