Thanks for posting r2g... I've struggled a lot with eye contact in my therapy and was stunned last week when I could actually look my T in the eye. Phew. I'm still too scared to look at one of my Ts for any significant amount of time, I told her this week when I noticed her hair had changed very slightly that I had such an intimate relationship with her shoes I was sorry if I hadn't noticed her hair change earlier. Eye contact is scary stuff!