Reply to "Finally got the courage to discuss Erotic Transference-YIKES!!"

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Oh, dear! I'm so, so sorry to hear that. It can be outright unbearable to bring up something that makes us feel so vulnerable, only to have T respond in the wrong way. It was good that you expressed your anger; it will give you a place to start working this out. I know seeing him is the last thing you want to do, but that means it's probably the exact thing you should do - even if it means screaming at him for an hour. (This is the stuff we pay them for, after all.)

Big hugs for you, VH. I hope you two can work this out.

6/5/147:21 PM

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