Hi about,i totally get it.my t takes a lot of vacations. Sh is about to go on one next week for 9 days. I feel like withdrawing emotionally right now. Its been a very hard timefor me right now and this sort of increased it. If you are anything like me you start to kind of adjust to the absense and then to have hercome back only to leave right away again would be a big challenge. It would be upsetting to me. Have talked to her about your feelings and beliefs on abandonment? That might help but i also get where that would vulnerable and thenshe is gone again. Sometimesi journal out my thouhts and feelings and then synthasive