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justme 2Member

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Does he really need to know who I feel about him? I feel uncomfortable thinking that he is attractive because I don't want it to interfere with our clinical relationship.

This IS your clinical relationship. Welcome to therapy!

I say this with a tone of humor, but it is really true. Your feelings for him reperesent so much of your history that you need to work through. He should understand what you are feeling and why and be able to help you understand it and work through it.

Keep coming back here and posting. I know that I have found this most helpful in undersatnding and accepting my own transference for my T.

11/3/084:43 AM

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