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justme 2Member

SimplyMe,

I hesitate to push the subject beyond your comfort zone, but I am going to anyway. You wouldn’t have signed on and told us what you did if you weren’t looking for some sort of feedback. And perhaps you are even being afraid to hear what you know you are about to hear. So for your best interest, here it goes. If I were in your shoes 2 years ago and my T had confessed an attraction to me or made any advances toward me I may have been tempted to go for it. Hard to believe with what I know now, but the safety our T's provide assure that doesn't happen when we are most vulnerable to it. Now I know I wouldn’t, but then I probably would have given in to something very dangerous and hurtful.

I hope you consider this before you make any potentially harmful decisions.

JM

11/7/0810:16 AM

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