Hi all,

Just an update...I met with our couples therapist a couple of days later to try and figure out what I wasn't understanding with my T (he had suggested I might want to talk to her), but when I described our conversation, she seemed surprised that we had been working through transference issues. I gave her some printouts from the guide to psychology website also. She said she was going to talk to my T again, and have a discussion with her review team (which is different from my T's), and then get back to me.

TN and AG have both said maybe my T just doesn't know how to get me through this, and I think they're right. It's a touchy subject and the safest thing to do is refer me if he doesn't know how to handle it. He really is a good T and I'm glad he's being honest about not knowing what to do next. I won't know for a few more days what the next step is. It's okay with me if I have to work the rest of this out with a new T.

Thanks, everyone, for being there - I really appreciate your responses and encouragement.

SG