
I think one of the most important factors in therapy is that it remains about the patient's needs and feelings, but it can be difficult for the therapist to do so, especially when they're starting out because being human, they will have their own triggers, sensitivities and blind spots. I think that human beings can only know ourselves in relationship, so it's important for a therapist to have a relationship in which they can observe their own unconscious stuff and work at keeping that out of the mix so that the therapeutic field is kept clear for the patient. I find it very encouraging that you are asking this question.
I think that a therapist thinking they are always capable of seeing clearly on their own is dangerously arrogant and could lead to real damage for a client.
AG