Al, what a moving post. Thanks for sharing your experience. It's really amazing you could share that here. What you did with T was real progress. Seems you felt safe enough with her to share such deep pain; that's really amazing for you, scary for sure but maybe also freeing. Trust is the most difficult hurdle for me to overcome. I suppose we want our Ts to "prove" themselves.Yours sounds authentic. I don't even know you....well, somewhere inside of me I do know how you feel, and I am proud of you!