Thank you all so much. Your marvellous replies really reinforce my overall feeling that this was something good. Yesterday it struck me that perhaps it had such impact because no one ever has had that sort of contact or known me so well. I know that could be both sad and good. I have no ability to feel my feelings at the moment so I think I tend to over think:-) but it feels like a step forward. Thank you again and lovely to 'meet' you all x