Hi Jones,

Thanks for posting the stats. Scary numbers indeed.

For me this is not about pursuing a sexual relationship with with my T. That is basically a dead end, tho i do admit that if that door were opened i would have a very hard time not going thru it.

It's about how to cope with the feeling of being hopelessly in love with my T, while at the same time having a very strong connection that could lead to healing.

I saw her yesterday and she was finishing my sentences and paraphrasing what i was trying to express as if she were in my head. She makes me laugh, i make her laugh. It feels like a once in a lifetime connection, so much more than physical attraction or projection due to transference.

Will probably have to terminate. So freaking sad.

Has anyone else got to that point and how did u bear it?

Thanks...