Reply to "new member/erotic transference/stop or go on"

evaMember

One more thing (sorry) ...

If she is giving you enough information about herself that you are able to conclude you would 'connect' outside the rooms, then it's no longer effective therapy for you - therapy is about YOU - her needs, wishes, desires, thoughts, feelings aren't the focus.

So again - either she is talking a lot about herself and what SHE thinks and feels (enough for you to 'know' she would be compatible for you in a relationship) OR she isn't, and you just think you know enough about her to feel you would 'connect'.

9/1/1412:03 AM

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