Reply to "new member/erotic transference/stop or go on"

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Originally posted by PassionFruit:
One point I made is any one-sided relationship does not seem genuine; it feels manufactured. Any relationship has some mutuality to it - mutual trust and vulnerability.
Passion Fruit

Yes, indeed. My T used the word "contrived" which i think fits. It's definitely an issue. Even when the therapy has felt good and potentially healing, i have this underlying sense that i'm being propped up by someting thats not real. But anyway guess one can analyze this to death, but in the end you just try things and see what helps.

9/1/1411:18 AM

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