Reply to "newbie needing help please"

ghostgirlMember

Blue,
Just read your last post about your T being retired and you being her last client, and also where you said you needed a therapist to leave your current T. My gut screamed for you to run. I so understand not wanting to leave a T because they seem to give you what you want/need. It is horrible because your heart is pulling you one way, but your head is somewhere else. Based on what you have shared, I think that your assessment of the situation is right on target. It has the potential to be a very dangerous and damaging situation to you. I think if my T actually sought me out as you have described yours has I would FREAK inside. Is is possible for you to consult with another T regarding this issue and slowly integrate a new T into your life as you disengage from your current T? I know this hurts. I am sorry you are experiencing this. Your T sounds like she is not respecting your boundaries and her issues are getting in the way. Huge healing hugs to you. I really identify.

6/15/1411:28 AM

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