Reply to "newbie needing help please"

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I did t read all the posts - I did read most of the first and last pages though - I am so sorry this has happened to you. I really really hope your new T gives you all the time you need to talk about what has happened.

I couldn't read all the posts because it scared the hell out of me that a T could be this abusive with their boundaries - I guess it reminds me too much of my own (abusive) mother - on one hand making it SEEM like it was about meeting MY needs but in truth it was ALWAYS about HER.

What you've described with your old T sounds like she is using you for HER NEEDS without ANY real thought as to how it leaves YOU feeling. It sounds very co-dependent on HER part. Gosh my heart breaks for how it must be leaving you feeling.

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