Reply to "newbie needing help please"

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I think you definitely need to tell her on no uncertain terms NO CONTACT, effective IMMEDIATELY.

Whether or not you do it by phone - leave a voice message or hang up once hVe said yr piece so she CANNOT then try to manipulate you further or turn it around into her being the victim - or you do so in writing - or even ask your new T to tell her to LEAVE YOU ALONE.

And seriously - if she CANNOT respect that then get a restraining order!!!!

This isn't even about 'ring or wrong' or if she's a 'bad' or 'ok' person - It's about PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM FURTHER TRAUMA

maybe even tell her that - and if she tries (cos she will) to turn it around how sad it is for her or how much she is hurting - hell down the phone ITS NOT ABOUT YOU!!!

6/23/143:20 PM

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