Reply to "past vs present"
Hi L to F...I can really relate to what you are writing...I don't trust my instincts either because of my abuse...especially when it comes to anger. I'm afraid to be angry with anyone because I believe I tend to overreact and/or I tell myself that the truth behind my anger relates to my 'issues of abuse' and therefore isn't legitimate, etc. I don't know what to do about it either...I always feel I have to be ever vigilant of my emotions because oh my...I might overreact/be unreasonable...so...I guess what I'm saying is yes, I get you...but, I don't know of any advice to give...mlc