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He asked if I'm refusing to accept the attachment and this relationship because of my fear that if I do the next step will be too scary, too overwhelming to think about?

This really resonated with me, because I'm pretty sure I'm about to start this process with my own T, and it feels so. damn. difficult. to even contemplate. I've never been hurt by a T, but I have been hurt by most of the men in my life, and it's almost unfathomable to me that my T would want nothing from me except my attachment.

You're doing amazing work, TN. So glad you could repair the rupture and take the next step forward.

8/12/141:43 PM

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