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I think my T is scared of me sometimes or a lot and that she has resistance. She has triggered me a lot in sessions and I then go off the deep end. I haven't told her - or felt comfortable enough to confide in her - that she has triggered me, haven't told her that I am feeling bad, haven't told her I have left sessions in a really bad state - then gone and done negative stuff. Go back to her next week and may or may not have told her. Or it will come out after a week or three and then we have to have calm, general sessions for a while - so I don't get triggered.

I have got 1 big pile of resistance and I am shutting down further - but I also see that my T is being super careful.

I don't think we are dancing to the same music right now. I think I have gone backward this past month.

SD

5/29/129:02 PM

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