She told you not to worry about her leaving or not? I am glad you can laugh at the irony.



It must be very frustrating when she changes her mind like that and I understand your defensivenes so you don't get hurt anymore. I feel it too. I think your T is right to say that it is ok to go slowly right now. A nice, slow, calm can be very soothing to an over activated nervous system. Slow is usually better for the therapeutic process anyway.
Hang in there!
JM