((((CTL))))- You aren't causing trouble at all and there is no need to apologize. That paragraph gave me bad feelings as well, but I had forgotten about it when I posted before. I do still feel like the article can be helpful, but this way no one is going into it blind.

D-Fly- my social anxiety makes it hard for me to post sometimes, but it is nice to be remembered, and your friendliness makes me smile. I'll have to check out that book that BG posted about- I'm always looking for more stuff to read