I am really confused by that word, don't know what it means, have recently tried to avoid it like the plague and honestly have have a hard time talking about it without sounding like a really, really bad cliche which just makes me cringe. This of course has a lot to do with being in marriage counseling and trying to determine and be honest about whether or not I think I can stay with my H and not have a nervous breakdown.
I don't think agape fits what love my T has for me or I for her. I guess the level of self-sacrifice that agape represents to me couldn't have so many limitations as the therapeutic relationship does.