Reply to "Transference II"

Hi there

This is a first post but I've been reading this topic for a few weeks now and yes, you've guessed, I too have the dreaded transference!! This topic has helped me to understand a lot but this Transference is making me ill for the last 6 weeks with one thing after another. It feels like I'm cheating on my husband because I spend all my time thinking about when I'm going to see my T next and how I'm going to talk to him about it, whether or not he has feelings for me etc etc - all the good stuff you guys have been discussing. We've had one physical 'holding' and boy I didn't want to leave it at that. So I upped the courage to tell him a week later and now I can't get rid of my feelings for him and the only way I can describe it is torture.

11/28/082:45 AM

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