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I uh... haven't actually felt _erotic_ transference to Tfella before. But um...just a question here. Does it ever feel _odd_ to feel this way about someone you don't know a thing about?

I ask because I find the amount of trust (paternal-style) I have in Tfella to be vaguely alarming, sometimes. So Lady of Shallot, when you and AG were talking about erotic transference and love, I was wondering. I mean, I know that's why this thread is called "transference" instead of "love and lust", but... it still brought it to mind. How do you deal with having these feelings and not knowing the people involved, really?

Any notions?

11/28/087:38 AM

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