I can answer that in a different sense than JM. I am gay and my T is a female. I am totally attracted to her even though she is not my type, at least what I thought was not my type. In session she did ask me what my type was and I did not have a direct answer. I went home to think about it, and alot of the qualities that I expressed were things that I see in her. Nothing shocking, just someone who is positive, caring, listens....hey is that not what we pay them for.
This is a problem for me, as I have pulled back in therapy because of these feelings. After making so much progress I stop myself.
Would I like to have a relationship with T. Sure I would like to ask her out for coffee, maybe go to a play or something. I am gay, she is straight...the boundaries, the conflict, the continuous problem.
Kat