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janeMember

"Your T is very good at holding back and allowing you to project everything onto him and thereby force you to see and speak to your needs" quote from JUST ME

he once told me (when i was having a slight fit in his office and said "ain't i supposed to be able to tell you anything?!!!):

"yes you are. and i'm supposed to mirror you and allow you to hear how and what you're saying"...

he said it so calmly like i wasn't sitting there having a come-apart!!!

so, does this meann that perhaps he DOES know what he is doing? i mean, i just really don't know. and how could a good therapist just let me walk away knowing i'm not done yet? what if i didn't go back? or what if that's not what happened and i DO go back? that would be awful too....

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