Hi,
This is my first post. I can relate to much of what all of you have posted and you seem to be more comfortable with transferences then I. I have a preoccupied attachment with my T, which is making me feel very uncomfortable. I spend a great deal of time trying to keep in check, because it feels like a huge flaw in my character. I know transferences can contribute to some of the biggest personal growth in therapy, but I don't trust that if I let myself sink into it I will be do what is best for me. I feel like I will be losing some of my independence. I don't want to foster a dependency role because I feel like that will be backsliding. I really could use some of your insights.
Questing