I think that its hard to be dependent or preoccupied with our therapist but its probably a necessary part of growth in therapy. I'm not preoccupied with my therapist but i know that there are a lot of people that are and it truly is ok!

Thats great Travelluvr! Its really important that you had that discussion and its great that it turned out good for you.
My therapist hugs me and touches me i didn't realise some people had boundaries about touch.