Transference is a real pain in the butt! This is my first year experiencing it to this extent, but also the first year I've had a male psychologist.
He's been gone on holidays, so it will be 2 weeks since I've seen him and confessed my transference issues with him. Oddly enough, I feel so much lighter, better. I'm no obsessing over him nearly as much. Time does seem to help! I'm sure that once I'm back I'll have the 'post therapy' thoughts for a good 48 hrs. Seems to be the pattern.
I am hoping it fades. It's been exhausting.
curious how the rest of you have been doing this week.......
-travelluvr