Thanks so much for your replies. As for touch, it is not hurtful or insensitive for me personally, and I am one of those who get zero touch. Personally, I'd love for you to talk about it because I want to know how it's been helpful for you and how that has brought healing for you.
I, too, struggle with knowing when to share the things that others do not get. Ultimately, I think we all benefit when we can celebrate with each other when we're healing and encourage each other when we're hurting. I can't speak for others, but I am okay and welcome the discussion of touch.

Have to make dinner, but will reply to your other post when I have a chance.
Thanks for taking the time to write!
PF