Reply to "What about back up Ts?"

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Thank you for all your answers (and the validation that the idea of a back up T was not completely crazy! I admit that I had a moment of doubt while reading that T's email.... )

I will definitely be talking about it with my Actual T (not really had time to bring it up yet, the last sessions were rough and no time for planning much). I would mostly see it as way to... explore the separation anxiety instead of just feeling/suffering from it and trying to learn something from it, instead of the usual pain? I do see it partly as an experiment, from which I can only learn?

So... thank you for sharing your experiences, it does help a lot.

Catalyst: I pmed you to answer your question, I don't feel okay enough to be talking about anything here, it would make it too real and scary.

7/12/145:27 PM

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