Reply to "what does dependency on your T mean?"

ninnMember

PassionFruit,
Thank you for your kindness.

"If we have not bonded and had our needs met, he says that separateness and having boundaries feels like hell"

I keep reading that....taking me a little bit to process what that means or what that feels like to me. I think my T is feeling that my 'hell' is caused BY the dependence....I'm thinking more along the lines of what you have typed....that I haven't had the time to BE dependent on T and get needs met ... long enough ....?

I'm short on time to respond, but I wanted to thNk you for sharing the book with me and your kindness.

Ninn

8/30/144:40 PM

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