Thank you for responding. It's amazing how far you have come in your work. You should be proud of you.
Thanks for reminding me about the protectors first. I found a really good article that was easy to understand that talks about this. They call the protectors the "judgmental" part. I will post a link here to the article. It's Christian based and although I'm not very religious I found it helpful and interesting.
http://www.nacr.org/wordpress/...from-childhood-abuse
Hope you enjoy the family thing...
Hugs
TN