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Hey Draggie Poo, I love what you wrote, but personally I don't feel it yet, but understood it enough to think that it would be amazing to be at that place you describe. It is frustrating for me as I think I have a great T who would the best person for me to have that connection with and to feel what you describe - but I feel that I am a long way off allowing myself to be so vulnerable.

Somedays
I so totally get it, Draggers!!!

This really, really gets to me cuz when li'l one is feeling safe enough to come out when I'm with T, my voice changes to whispers and T's becomes extremely gentle and quiet. She gets it. Li'l one feels it. I feel it. It lasts only long enough for both of us to know it IS possible. It's funny, I sometimes expect to see a huge neon sign flashing on and off as I drive home on the highway that says, "ya did it! Ya felt it! You finally trusted someone enough to let li'l one come out and experience being in someone else's safe presence"....'k...that would be a rather long sign, wouldn't it!?? Roll Eyes but ya know what I mean.

Anyway, so glad to know someone else has felt this way, too.

The Kid and li'l one

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