Thanks for the link XOXO... I am working my way through the list. The article on non-erotic love in the therapeutic dyad resonated with me and I think I need to talk to my T about Ferenczi. My T is very open to there being love in the therapeutic relationship ... on BOTH sides. He always tells me he is not immune to the feelings... nor is he frightened of them (which oldT was). It really helps that my T does not avoid the word "love"... although I am still gun-shy about it myself after what happened with oldT.
Hope you are doing okay. I know you miss your T. He sounds like a fabulous T and I'd miss him too.
TN