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So, after two-and-a-half years of therapy, things finally feel stable enough for me that I can do TWO hard things at once, and I am back to trying to get fit/healthy again.

Because of the move, packing, unpacking, cleaning, gardening in the new yard, I lost nine pounds in the first month without actually trying (despite being unsuccessful at kicking soda out of my house and a few...encounters with excessive amounts of cookies).

One of my goals for 2013 was to lose 25 pounds (on my way to wanting to lose 65 overall to be really fit). I knew I could probably do more, but I was afraid to pick a really hard goal without knowing what I would be up for emotionally. The 25 I am losing now were all gained after I started therapy, fell apart, and couldn't keep up with the fitness/diet program I had started after the trauma that triggered me starting therapy.

I planned on starting after we were unpacked, but all that work got me a head start. I'm trying to take it slower from here. I download MyFitnessPal on my phone and am using it to track my eating and exercise as I had done before therapy, so I don't overdo it. When I get stressed or focused (fixated?), I can forget to eat or push myself too hard. Slow and steady, right?

Anyway, I don't know if it's the new home being more open and light, or things with therapy being more stable, or major life issues calming down (i.e. at least the foreclosure thing is decided now and I am not having to fight to get help anymore, despite it resulting in a huge loss). But...I think I can do this.

The reason I'm saying so here, is I know there are going to be times I get really depressed or have a crisis or hard circumstances...and I'm going to want to quit, sleep and eat away the issues (or perhaps worse, excessively punish my body with diet and exercise in an unhealthy way). So, I guess I'm posting here, because I want a community of people I trust, who understand how complicated things get trying to do these two really hard things (emotional and physical wellness) at the same time.

I'm proud of me for trying. Smiler I hope you guys will support me in the effort (maybe join me in it?), regardless of the results.
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Well done anon! I've just downloaded my fitness pal as well Big Grin started my healthy eating 3 weeks ago and lost 7lbs so far. I'm not on a diet I'm just making sure I eat healthy and regularly. I'm finding a bit hard as I work nights, however I'm going to Mexico on the 8th of may so i have a goal to look forward to.

Luc
Anon and Luci, I've got my fitness pal too!
I used it a while again and it really helped then when I felt I'd got into better habits I stopped... But I've noticed that I've been struggling with all the looking after myself stuff again so your post has made me think.

Anon, I really understand how hard it is to juggle emotional and physical health, even when we know it is all interlinked. Thank you for putting your intention out there. I will do likewise from today and take each day at a time!

Luci, you've done really well! I am inspired.

So, here's to getting a grip on eating and remembering to be active!

Thanks for the encouragement, (((Luci))) (((kmay))) (((Iris))). A tough day with more insurance drama that really had me wanting to dessert myself to death. Luckily, the only dessert we have easily accessible here (like, unless I want to bake) is ice cream, and it's cold, so I'm not in the mood for that. Wink Excited to know that there are others out there doing the same thing as me. Makes me feel less alone. It can be really hard with my equally used-to-be-in-great-shape-now-err-not-so-much husband being totally unmotivated to change his habits. It's nice to feel like there is someone along side you, even if they're really far away. Smiler

(((Poppy))) (((Cat)))

So glad that others are on the same page and will be here to encourage me. Today is going to be a hard day to eat well, but since we are making all our own food for today (homemade guacamole, homemade pizza from scratch), so it will be easier to stay healthy than if we were eating out.

And, yeah, um...GO 49ERS!!!!!!!!

Big Grin
Sorry about your 49ers, Non. Hug two

Like everyone else has said - good for you for working on staying healthy! I've slowly started to get just a bit better myself, mostly having to do with more physical activity first. I'm having to take it one step at a time. I lost a bunch of weight before but ended up going to far and it was just unhealthy, so I'm trying to do it the right way this time - by just making it a lifestyle.

Anyway, again, it's awesome what you're doing...you definitely have a cheering section here!
Thanks. At least it ended up being a close game and not the massacre it looked like it might be. Big Grin

Tried to do my first real workout today (that wasn't gardening or something like that). It...did not go well. I had to quit one third of the way in, because all these programs do aerobic activities that don't work with people who have bad knees, like myself. I have horrible joints from genetics and multiple injuries playing sports in school. So, workouts with a bunch of lunges and repetitive motions on my joints just don't work. Frowner Oh well. Guess it's back to walking and light jogging and such, maybe some shooting around with the basketball at the school down the street (except the best work out time is when Boo is in school, so hard to do). Ugh, I feel very defeated today. I could have kept going a bit longer, except for my knees and ankle. Maybe I just need to do 10-15 minutes at a time and take breaks or something when my joints start to feel like they're going to go out from under me...I mean, that literally happens sometimes, like I'll just be walking and my knee won't lock properly and I'll almost fall over, or my ankle will roll. Frowner I hate me right now. I feel disgusting.
Swimming requires me to be in a swimsuit in front of people. Even when I was in great shape as teen, I always wore t-shirts over my swimsuits...I wonder, what is the best time to go to a pool when the least number of people would be there?

Hug two Thanks for the support.

I think I can manage jogging at least in the meantime, and I can do it in private in my backyard, even if it's a little ridiculous. Wink

I think you're doing great - even when faced with challenges, you are working round them.

I go running (aka jogging...) in the dark, very early in the morning! I have to keep to well lit streets, though, as fell over when I ventured onto paths across fields once...

Tomorrow is another day. You are fabulous!

xx iris
Awww, all the support (((hugs))) it means so much you guys. Today, I didn't let it get me down and got outside to gardening with Aya. It may not be a ton of exercise, but it's certainly better than sitting on my butt and moping. Big Grin

And Cat, yeah, it bores the holy crap out of me too, running. Smiler My dad used to run five miles a day when I was a kid. I seem to only be able to stick with things that are very goal oriented. Like, if I'm running to GET somewhere, I can run three times as far as just running to run. Well, lol, I might not be able to run much anymore anyway, but still.

Tomorrow's a new day. One step at a time.

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