I am very new here, but have already received so much (silent) support from the honesty and words written in this space.
I have a very close relationship with my therapist of 2 years. We are very similar in age, personalities, and number/age of kids -and both of us are gay (if it matters). There was an instant connection which has only grown over time. We have spoken about it before, and talked at length about the advantages and disadvantages of boundaries.
Recently I actually came out and said I loved her - and that I knew that she loved me...She just asked how I knew that she loved me, but then did not offer any other response. She said she was going to respond, but could not do it at that time. I am not going to see her for 3 weeks - and am going crazy hanging on this.
Was I wrong to say it? Why did she not respond?
Have others been in similar situations? I would love to know how other clients/therapists handle the love that is sometimes there as a proverbial "elephant in the room"