In any event, what has happened has been that she HAS backed off of her usual stuff A LOT are a result of me standing up for myself.
She got a little spunky the other day and made one of her typical remarks. We were sitting at her table and she said, "cell phones are the worst thing that ever happened to mankind." Of course I was probably sitting there playing with my cell phone.
I know it's sad but I LOVE my cell phone. I'm not going to agree with her based of my own feelings. Aside from my personal feelings, however, I happen to appreciate all the advances in technology, including but not limited to, cell phones and think it's one of the best things that's ever happened to mankind. Just my opinion.
For the first time ever, I was able to disagree with her politely in the moment. (Pretty pathetic given my age.) I'd always thought her comments to me were just simply her way of controlling me, letting me know what her expectations were of me. The other day, a new thought occurred to me.
Was there some anger hidden in there as well because I am not validating her existence by believing in the same things she does? Is it possible that she makes these statements to not only control me but let me know that she's angry as well and I just never realized it before because it's what I am used to as a matter of course?
Does this make any sense?