My argument is basically going to be that I need a T with experience in my diagnosis (there are only four who do dissociative disorders at all in my county on my HMO). One of those is the pdoc who I tried to do med management through and stopped answering my emails, because I wasn't looking for therapy at the time. I thought of calling the other three to see if they have ever worked with a DID client before (would help my case if they hadn't). Then, I was going to try to push my need to work within a Christian/spiritual context to address the heavy JW-indoctrination that is wreaking havoc with all the young parts lately. I actually had a panic attack at church last week, because something in a video we watched made me feel like I was in a Kingdom Hall. WTF? The reality is that I probably could work without the spiritual aspect in my therapy, but I don't feel capable of starting over with anyone right now, especially with things going so solid, and I do really like that T and I are on the same page there (less to explain sometimes).
I realize the HMO will probably consider that last argument a load of crap, but right now it's important to me and I thought it was worth a try to get them to pay for my T since things are going so well and they said I could apply for an exemption with the psychiatrist if I couldn't find one in network that met my needs.
Does anyone have any tips that could help me (ethically/honestly) get them to do it? I checked with T and he is more than willing to do any paperwork required if I am able to get the exemption and it can save me money. He still isn't applying to be in network himself, because he is convinced they won't accept him for some reason. Well, that is what H said. I haven't asked him directly, but I don't think he's lying about his perception.
Anyway, help!?!?